Susan, I only met you once, it was at a Sea Cadet event where you were working in the background supporting the cause, like always - putting others needs before your own. Im a friend of your Husband Andy, he too is a great person, you both show the way to help others. Its not fair you are gone, but as they say…. God takes the good ones first. 
I’ll check in on Andy for you from time to time, with I could do more but im 5000 miles west. May you find eternal peace, as we say in the Military, “Stand Easy, your stag is done”

Peter Hunt